Okay, first let me say, thanks for bringing this to my attention. I had no idea these databases existed.
Second... I feel sick. I have spent the last 18 months on the run from an old boyf i affectionatly refer to a the psycho stalker ex. I even changed my real name, thats how scared of him i am. I did keep my LJ account as he never knew this pseudonom, but he did know my other online name. Hence, i've avided posting on FF.net. Thank God because i DO have a listing on FH. just a stub but very worrying none the less.
I was just considering uploading some of my recent stories to FFnet, but with this database, he could easily search for the same stories and find them in my LJ account!!!!!!
Right now i'm freaking out and considering just closing everything.
Fandom has been such a refuge for me, it's horrible that it could be my downfall and lead this... [there are no polite words for him] right to me.
I'm thankful i have been so paranoid and also terrified i've made a slip somewhere. When i changed my name, for example, i did do a flocked post on my LJ asking for opinions. I deleted the post after 24 hours but that info is still "out there" so to speak.
I'm sorry, that probably didnt make much sense. I'm not exactly thinking clearly right now.
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Second... I feel sick. I have spent the last 18 months on the run from an old boyf i affectionatly refer to a the psycho stalker ex. I even changed my real name, thats how scared of him i am. I did keep my LJ account as he never knew this pseudonom, but he did know my other online name. Hence, i've avided posting on FF.net. Thank God because i DO have a listing on FH. just a stub but very worrying none the less.
I was just considering uploading some of my recent stories to FFnet, but with this database, he could easily search for the same stories and find them in my LJ account!!!!!!
Right now i'm freaking out and considering just closing everything.
Fandom has been such a refuge for me, it's horrible that it could be my downfall and lead this... [there are no polite words for him] right to me.
I'm thankful i have been so paranoid and also terrified i've made a slip somewhere. When i changed my name, for example, i did do a flocked post on my LJ asking for opinions. I deleted the post after 24 hours but that info is still "out there" so to speak.
I'm sorry, that probably didnt make much sense. I'm not exactly thinking clearly right now.
Anyway, thanks.