It did amaze me when I read that she only works part-time anyway. Amid all the yelling at her, this reasonable and thoughtful post (http://www.livejournal.com/users/cousinjean/343340.html?thread=2439724#t2439724) about the use of time was undeservedly lost -- it's probably what she most needs to hear. Heck, I should save it to re-read on days when I feel like complaining I don't have time to write.